Yeah I’m not sure how I can get them to replace it. I mentioned it but he said if it were failing it wouldn’t be intermittent. Maybe I just request it again or see if I can get Alfa Romeo customer care to get the to replace it even if they don’t think it’s the issue. Another 100 mile tow along with additional diagnostics has to me more expensive than replacing a relay.All the symptoms of a bad starter relay seem to be there. I don’t know how to demand it, but that’s what they need to focus on. My dealer took care of it immediately.